Don't Go With The Flow, Be The Flow.

I was feeling stuck with my emotions, torn between keeping others happy and finding my happiness. Yesterday I was reading my favourite novel for inspiration and then pages flipped up and my eye caught attention on this quote: “Don't go with the flow, be the flow." The life's waves were pushing me around the crafting of my own path. In my perception “being the flow” means choosing what you want in your life - what you love doing most, not what the others want and dictate to you what to do.

If I want to have ice cream before dinner I'll have it, if I want to go for rides like a kid I'll do it, and yeah if I want a deep pause from work, from kids, from home chores I'll definitely have it. If I want to get out of a toxic relationship or circle I'll do it. I won't let people decide why I want to stay in a toxic relationship.

Take the reins of life in your hands because you don't get to live life twice. Make yourself happy, get yourself a path where you can be free and choose what you want. Because “Don't go with the flow, be the flow.”